A deck built to get past “So, what do you do?”
Fifty-odd questions, sorted into four decks: Fun, Flirty, Future-focused, Deep. Bring them on a first date or pull them out on your tenth anniversary. They hold up either way.
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Product details
55 questions, nine colour-coded themes, covering everything from money to family to what you actually believe in. A slipcase you'd actually keep on a shelf, not bin after one use.
How it works
Pick a colour, pull a card, answer it properly. Skip Intimacy & Dealbreakers on a first date if you're not there yet. Save Wildcards for when the conversation's gone quiet.
Why it matters
Most first dates run on autopilot: job, siblings, where you grew up. This has a whole deck for money and another for family, so you find out what matters before you're six months in, not after.
The rest of the shelf.
Beyond the cards sit paper goods you would want to keep, objects you would notice in someone's home, and a handful of private dinners and weekends you cannot find elsewhere. Added slowly, and only when they earn their place.
Members get the first look at every new shelf.
Ichötà lives in your pocket.
Vetted members, concierge-led introductions and compatibility done properly — on iPhone and Android.